The education of the child in a single-parent family requires a special approach. The vast majority of these families are without fathers, so-called “maternal family”, although in recent years began to occur such families, where there is no mother. To a huge regret, the number of single-parent families is growing a lot of progression. Most of these families are formed as a result of divorce, Pope m mom, the emergence of nebracnyj children, the death of a parent. In the latter case, the child with the death of, say, the Pope remains a memory. About him often say older, usually idealized, view photos. And a child, growing up without a dad, constantly feels as though his presence. Moreover, if the family grow and the older children.
Another thing, when my parents divorced. Here take effect pejorative characteristics of the parent, whether mom or dad. In the family, if you recall, always in a negative color. And the child develops a complex. If it’s a girl, it gets used in each of the male gender to only see the negative. Subconsciously her childhood produced such quality as the rejection of men. If it’s a boy, then it may affect low self-esteem, they say, I had a bad father, then, and I’m the same. Very serious child feels Continue reading
Many parents notice that the child’s behavior at age 7 varies. All this is due to the fact that the crisis is 7 years old. What to do? Parents don’t know that. This article will tell you how to behave.
At the age of 7 years in a child’s psychological breakdown. All of its children’s values change, the concepts of good and bad too. Now he is no longer the baby, and the student learns to interact with other children. All this changes the behavior of the child in 7 years.
It is considered that in comparison with crises 3 and 14 years, the crisis of 7 years the most quiet and less noticeable. But it happens very rarely, and, most likely, parents who do not pay enough attention to the child, it can really not be overlooked. And those parents who have experienced the crisis of 7 years, what to do, I don’t know. But first you need to understand the symptoms of this case, and with which they are associated.
All this is happening with a child, because he is becoming more Mature. Willy-nilly, he begins to realize that his desires are not always compatible with the capabilities of parents and himself. Does this change the world, break down stereotypes. Now the child is in control Continue reading
A variety of parenting techniques, parents can apply depending on the characteristics, behaviour and age of the child. To apply and to choose the methods of parents depends on their level of psychological and pedagogical knowledge, and how they themselves were brought up, etc.
The choice of methods of education of children affected by the behavior of parents, who may be ambivalent, authoritarian and democratic.
These methods form not only a Mature person, complete harmony, they sometimes become the cause of various psychological complexes.
The main methods used in the education of children .
Method of persuasion and conversation . This method is used in the education of children with any character and at different ages. In conversation with children, parents argue and explain how to properly maintain in a variety of situations, figuring out the motivations of the child. The tone of the conversation parents have to be firm and confident calm. Even kids at the age of one year, not knowing how else to respond, carefully listen to their parents, responding to their intonation.
Method of positive reinforcement . Reinforcements are some parental actions that follow his deeds and actions. Reinforcement is positive (positive) and negative. Positive reinforcement we include gratitude, praise, positive parental actions (to give a new toy, turn on cartoons, Continue reading