I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “No, no, mom, I’m scared!” the Mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child. “don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.
At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go through their steps to night”. The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.
“wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong.
I realized this later on tonight. The trouble Continue reading
With the arrival of summer, many parents are starting to think, a place to put their child to have spent this time of year interesting and useful. In accordance with the opinion of psychologists, children during the summer should be constantly busy with something. Because idleness is a real threat to the health and mental condition of the child. Of course, in this matter and rely on how much your child years.
Deciding what to do with the child during the summer, don’t forget about simple summer walks, the more, the better. By the way, they can be themed. The main thing that they involved the whole family, this way you will be able to establish relationships.
Walk with the baby every day
If your child is very young, just beginning to explore the world, then you can go together to the Park, where the girls will love to collect flowers. Let, even if it will be simple dandelions. But the boys are going to see a lot of representatives of the insect world. Of course, you should pay attention to the interests of the child. Walking in the Park, you should not forget to explain that there are flowers that cannot Continue reading
Of course, your desire to take their children to rest good and necessary. And I understand how hard it is knowing this truth stand before a “closed door”. And at the same time, in any dispute both right and both wrong, but everyone in his way. So here is a very important dialogue with the understanding of the causes of failure by her husband. Probably, the husband does not listen, she listens and doesn’t hear or understand your point of view, as you possibly can. A misunderstanding occurs when the information you are trying to convey is not sufficiently available or zavualirovanno, touted aggressive or simply hushed up. All this impedes the dialogue and lack of dialogue always leads to the disappearance of mutual understanding and as a result can quarrel.
The situation about which you wrote, possibly indicating that each of you knows what is really going on with the other. Only the surface reaction – a feeling of newclient. To remedy the situation, it is very important to want to understand each other, what with each of you going. Need to try better understand each other, because when you are not proisraeli the essence Continue reading