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Mom, I’m scared!

I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “No, no, mom, I’m scared!” the Mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child. “don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.

At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go through their steps to night”. The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.

“wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong.

I realized this later on tonight. The trouble Continue reading

The Husband does not want children of the sea

Of course, your desire to take their children to rest good and necessary. And I understand how hard it is knowing this truth stand before a “closed door”. And at the same time, in any dispute both right and both wrong, but everyone in his way. So here is a very important dialogue with the understanding of the causes of failure by her husband. Probably, the husband does not listen, she listens and doesn’t hear or understand your point of view, as you possibly can. A misunderstanding occurs when the information you are trying to convey is not sufficiently available or zavualirovanno, touted aggressive or simply hushed up. All this impedes the dialogue and lack of dialogue always leads to the disappearance of mutual understanding and as a result can quarrel.

The situation about which you wrote, possibly indicating that each of you knows what is really going on with the other. Only the surface reaction – a feeling of newclient. To remedy the situation, it is very important to want to understand each other, what with each of you going. Need to try better understand each other, because when you are not proisraeli the essence Continue reading

The Development of critical thinking in children.

Early childhood — a very short span in the life of a person. But during this time the child acquires significantly more than for the rest of his life. Many psychologists and educators believe that the most important is the age from birth to three years.

Famous Japanese specialist on early development Masaru Ibuka in his book “After three late” tells the story of how early life experiences affect the future destiny of man. The fastest leapfrog development occurs just at this time. But after three years the child continues to learn about the world. So the fact remains — all children of preschool age are unusually sensitive to all kinds of influences. If we do not notice the results of some impacts, this does not suggests that they are not. Preschoolers are ready to chat, learn new skills, develop existing abilities. The task of parents — to put them on the right path.

Visual-figurative thinking begins to emerge in children at the age of one and a half years and finally formed to five years. Using such thinking, the child is able to solve different tasks with real objects. This means that a child aged four to five Continue reading

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The Husband does not want children of the sea
Of course, your desire to take their children to rest good and necessary. And I understand how hard it is knowing this truth stand before a "closed door". And at…

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The social situation of development of the preschool child
The most important personal mechanism formed in the preschool period, is the subordination of motives. Previously, if several desires arise at the same time, the child was in an almost…

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Children's fears and how to deal with them
Some parents do not attach importance to the fears of children. It happens that parents stubbornly ignore the fear of a child or, even worse, ridiculed him, scolded, punished. But…

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