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Difficulties

Not hard to guess that people who have achieved success, and that, as a rule, politicians, actors, business men for a long time were “not on the horse” and had difficulties in communicating. They were not my favorite job, suffered from self-doubt. But as you can see from the headlines, they’re all just fine. And I have to tell you, many of them would not have coped with their difficulties in communicating without psychological help and without the help of an experienced psychologist. All psychological communication techniques they have mastered for a long time.

Hinder communication:

Insecurities often get in the way of effective communication, sometimes to have to seek psychological help. But still, let’s see, what uncertainty does to us and with someone. When you are unsure, feel discomfort, pressure under the breast, the lump in my throat makes you relax and say the word. And you don’t know what to say! And rightly so, how do you know what to say, if you compresses so much “bodily harm.” Only when you feel relaxed and calm, the words themselves come to mind.

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Bad cartoons

To upity or not the baby disk with cartoons, freeing himself for an hour to rest? Each of us decides for itself. However, child psychologists sounding the alarm and say: fun and funny American cartoons are a serious threat to a child’s psyche. Is there any reason to restrict the viewing of cartoons?

Caution: cartoons!

About the dangers of some cartoons sentenced more than once. However, still the question is as follows. Let’s look at some aspects of the problem:

what cartoons are a threat to the smaller members of society and why,

how to deal with the problem?

“Bad cartoons” and hidden within them the threat

Why many of the works of today’s cartoons are simply bad? Consider a few of the indisputable facts that seemingly harmless cartoon can cause unique harm to the psyche of the child.

• Substitution of concepts.

In Soviet times it was just. Good-evil, positive-negative. The child absorbed the positive traits of the hero, wanted to be like him. Today, however, the line between good and evil blurred. Recall, for everyone’s favorite cartoon about Shrek. His what is morality? Hero Shrek makes burps smell, lives in the dirt… And the Princess feona, instead of pity on the bird, killing it and fry eggs.

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Foster parents

The school of adoptive parents is a relatively new phenomenon. But these programs have helped a considerable number of children and parents to find each other and create new families. What happens in the classroom who visit them, what fears have with prospective parents and on what terms you can take the family to the child? About Catherine Hlamovoy told Tatyana Markova, educational psychologist, the District authorized organization to support orphans and children left without parental care.

What is a “school for foster parents”?

This session, in which potential parents are prepared to take the child into the family. Leading talk about the psychology of the child-orphans, about how he will adjust to the new family on the legal aspects of admission. Parents not only listen to lectures and discuss topics that concern them, play set leading situation, watch videos and participate in a brainstorm, talk with the alumni. As you can see, the main focus is on the interaction between leaders and participants. An equally important part of preparation is an individual consultation with experts.

Who comes to these classes?

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