Not hard to guess that people who have achieved success, and that, as a rule, politicians, actors, business men for a long time were “not on the horse” and had difficulties in communicating. They were not my favorite job, suffered from self-doubt. But as you can see from the headlines, they’re all just fine. And I have to tell you, many of them would not have coped with their difficulties in communicating without psychological help and without the help of an experienced psychologist. All psychological communication techniques they have mastered for a long time.
Insecurities often get in the way of effective communication, sometimes to have to seek psychological help. But still, let’s see, what uncertainty does to us and with someone. When you are unsure, feel discomfort, pressure under the breast, the lump in my throat makes you relax and say the word. And you don’t know what to say! And rightly so, how do you know what to say, if you compresses so much “bodily harm.” Only when you feel relaxed and calm, the words themselves come to mind.
During a conversation with someone, it is better to leave the problems that gnaw at you, it is better to discuss them with him, unless of course Continue reading
The therapy is becoming increasingly popular methods of influence on the younger generation. The tale will help to overcome shyness and whims of the child. After reading the tale, he will learn to distinguish good from bad, learning to empathize and to seek justice.
For centuries among our parents argued: without belt child not to educate. Such “soldier” methods became really popular, and even today, in an intellectually advanced society, common among many parents. But, abroad for many years, promote the upbringing of children without the use of physical or moral pressure. Now this trend is becoming popular among our parents.
The tale is a language that the child understands
The therapy is, by saying “scientific” attempt to objectify the problem situation, or in other words – this good fairy-tale upbringing in an atmosphere where dreams become reality, where there is anticipation of a miracle, justice and kindness in the world. This helps the child to overcome your fears, and most importantly – gives the child a sense of confidence and security.
Of all the practices of pedagogy perhaps the most interesting method of raising a child can be called a fairy . When the teacher shows the child the connection between the fairy tale scenario and the behavior of people in real Continue reading
To upity or not the baby disk with cartoons, freeing himself for an hour to rest? Each of us decides for itself. However, child psychologists sounding the alarm and say: fun and funny American cartoons are a serious threat to a child’s psyche. Is there any reason to restrict the viewing of cartoons?
About the dangers of some cartoons sentenced more than once. However, still the question is as follows. Let’s look at some aspects of the problem:
what cartoons are a threat to the smaller members of society and why,
how to deal with the problem?
“Bad cartoons” and hidden within them the threat
Why many of the works of today’s cartoons are simply bad? Consider a few of the indisputable facts that seemingly harmless cartoon can cause unique harm to the psyche of the child.
• Substitution of concepts.
In Soviet times it was just. Good-evil, positive-negative. The child absorbed the positive traits of the hero, wanted to be like him. Today, however, the line between good and evil blurred. Recall, for everyone’s favorite cartoon about Shrek. His what is morality? Hero Shrek makes burps smell, lives in the dirt… And the Princess feona, instead of pity on the bird, killing it and fry eggs.
The child does not distinguish truth from fiction. So this behavior goodie it takes literally. And so – do not be surprised Continue reading