The education of the child in a single-parent family requires a special approach. The vast majority of these families are without fathers, so-called “maternal family”, although in recent years began to occur such families, where there is no mother. To a huge regret, the number of single-parent families is growing a lot of progression. Most of these families are formed as a result of divorce, Pope m mom, the emergence of nebracnyj children, the death of a parent. In the latter case, the child with the death of, say, the Pope remains a memory. About him often say older, usually idealized, view photos. And a child, growing up without a dad, constantly feels as though his presence. Moreover, if the family grow and the older children.
Another thing, when my parents divorced. Here take effect pejorative characteristics of the parent, whether mom or dad. In the family, if you recall, always in a negative color. And the child develops a complex. If it’s a girl, it gets used in each of the male gender to only see the negative. Subconsciously her childhood produced such quality as the rejection of men. If it’s a boy, then it may affect low self-esteem, they say, I had a bad father, then, and I’m the same. Very serious child feels Continue reading
Many parents notice that the child’s behavior at age 7 varies. All this is due to the fact that the crisis is 7 years old. What to do? Parents don’t know that. This article will tell you how to behave.
At the age of 7 years in a child’s psychological breakdown. All of its children’s values change, the concepts of good and bad too. Now he is no longer the baby, and the student learns to interact with other children. All this changes the behavior of the child in 7 years.
It is considered that in comparison with crises 3 and 14 years, the crisis of 7 years the most quiet and less noticeable. But it happens very rarely, and, most likely, parents who do not pay enough attention to the child, it can really not be overlooked. And those parents who have experienced the crisis of 7 years, what to do, I don’t know. But first you need to understand the symptoms of this case, and with which they are associated.
All this is happening with a child, because he is becoming more Mature. Willy-nilly, he begins to realize that his desires are not always compatible with the capabilities of parents and himself. Does this change the world, break down stereotypes. Now the child is in control Continue reading
Divorce is experienced it is hard even for an adult. This is not a joke – because crumbling family. But many families facing divorce, have children. Perhaps in your family too is this a difficult change. How to prepare your child for divorce? What to do in order for this process was held for him in the least painful? How to help?
Unfortunately, he has to protect the child from psychological pain in a divorce you will not succeed. Divorce is the destruction of his world, he has to survive the loss of a parent (and the care of the family is perceived as a loss, no less!), to adapt to a new life in a single-parent family, possibly even to survive the move to another house or another city… If you have the mental condition of the child is important, before you begin divorce proceedings, you should consult with a child and family psychologist . The specialist will help you to prepare your child for a challenging stage in life.
Unfortunately, the time for reflection and preparation for the divorce is not at all. The circumstances are different, the causes of divorce. Often divorce falls on the head of the family members as snow on the head, and do not have time and desire. Very often parents are too absorbed in their own problems to pay attention to children. Sometimes are horrible for baby things – for example, Continue reading