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Children’s fears and how to deal with them

Some parents do not attach importance to the fears of children. It happens that parents stubbornly ignore the fear of a child or, even worse, ridiculed him, scolded, punished. But there comes a time and parents are forced to notice the fear of the child, because the consequences of fears become too obvious (aggression, sleep disturbance, confusion, neurosis). Only in this case to help a child is much more difficult.

Fear is based on the instinct of self-preservation, has a protective nature and is accompanied by certain physiological changes in higher nervous activity, which affects heart rate and respiration, blood pressure, the secretion of gastric juice.

In the most General form of the emotion of fear arises in response to a threatening stimulus. There are two threats that have universal and at the same time fatal in its outcome. It’s death and the collapse of values, in contrast to such concepts as life, health, assertiveness, personal and social well-being. But in addition to extreme expressions of fear always involves the experience of any real or imagined danger.

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The Impact of computer games on children

Any child in a family where there are phones, tablets, smartphones and computers, begins quite early interested in. How do you determine where is the line between a healthy interest and dependence on gadgets. It’s easy to understand after watching child’s behavior and answering such questions.

How much time the child plays computer games? If more hours a day – it is worth considering.

If your child can enjoy games without a computer or tablet?

How easy it is to distract the child from the computer, calling him to eat, play or sleep?

Does the child draw on the paper, read books or listen to my mother’s reading or all this prefers the computer?

If your child can spend one or several days, never looking at the computer?

Based on honest answers to these questions, each parent can understand how the impact of computer games on children a lot in their case.

The causes are dependent on gadgets

Many parents, worrying about what a strong influence of computer games can have a detrimental effect on the child, you forget that often provoke the emergence of dependence. It is therefore important to understand why children start actively interested in the computer or a tablet and forget about other games.

The main causes of increased interest in gadgets are the following.

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