Many children go through a period between two and four years – when the beats and biting is a form of communication, often the only one to Express this or that in their condition, for example: “I am angry” or “I want this.” Not having even the power of speech and, thus, not knowing how else to Express their wishes and requests, they tend to resort to using his fists or sharp baby teeth. Despite the fact that this is a normal stage of child development, such aggressiveness can turn into a habit. Children who, growing up, learn to suppress their aggression and to communicate with others using oral speech, often become real fighters. Through the fights, the children can produce their own things to which they aspire, but it will make them outcasts in the children’s company and other kids will be afraid of them.
If your child is in this phase of development, he may soon pass her. To bring this point (and to help protect other children!), you can use the tips that will help your child get rid of aggressive habits.
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Divorce is experienced it is hard even for an adult. This is not a joke – because crumbling family. But many families facing divorce, have children. Perhaps in your family too is this a difficult change. How to prepare your child for divorce? What to do in order for this process was held for him in the least painful? How to help?
Unfortunately, he has to protect the child from psychological pain in a divorce you will not succeed. Divorce is the destruction of his world, he has to survive the loss of a parent (and the care of the family is perceived as a loss, no less!), to adapt to a new life in a single-parent family, possibly even to survive the move to another house or another city… If you have the mental condition of the child is important, before you begin divorce proceedings, you should consult with a child and family psychologist . The specialist will help you to prepare your child for a challenging stage in life.
Unfortunately, the time for reflection and preparation for the divorce is not at all. The circumstances are different, the causes of divorce. Often divorce falls on the head of the family members as snow on the head, and do not have time and desire. Very often parents are too absorbed in their own problems to pay attention to children. Sometimes are horrible for baby things – for example, Continue reading
Divorce at the present time – not an uncommon phenomenon. When parents can no longer be together: one person fell out of love, met another man, finally, do not get along, they believe that it is better to divorce. The argument is that the child still feels the tension, false, and often becomes a witness of scandals, so it’s better for him not to see it.
Of course, the kid is painful to see discord between parents, but it is even more painful when one of them leaves the family. Parental divorce greatly affects the psyche of children. Change can be very different. Much again will depend on the position of the parents in this situation. A possible development scenario could be several.
Strange, of course, will sound “good separation”, but to scatter wife really might like a cat with a dog, nagovor each other offensive words. And, most importantly, a hostage situation again going to have a baby. Because, a little later after the breakup, each of them will try to make the child as an ally, to win his attention. One of the variants of the conquest of the location of the parent can be the gifts that are supposedly “smooth out” negative impressions. Only sometimes spouses don’t understand that for a daughter or son there is no priority in love. They take their parents for granted, not giving special Continue reading