Divorce is experienced it is hard even for an adult. This is not a joke – because crumbling family. But many families facing divorce, have children. Perhaps in your family too is this a difficult change. How to prepare your child for divorce? What to do in order for this process was held for him in the least painful? How to help?
Unfortunately, he has to protect the child from psychological pain in a divorce you will not succeed. Divorce is the destruction of his world, he has to survive the loss of a parent (and the care of the family is perceived as a loss, no less!), to adapt to a new life in a single-parent family, possibly even to survive the move to another house or another city… If you have the mental condition of the child is important, before you begin divorce proceedings, you should consult with a child and family psychologist . The specialist will help you to prepare your child for a challenging stage in life.
Unfortunately, the time for reflection and preparation for the divorce is not at all. The circumstances are different, the causes of divorce. Often divorce falls on the head of the family members as snow on the head, and do not have time and desire. Very often parents are too absorbed in their own problems to pay attention to children. Sometimes are horrible for baby things – for example, Continue reading
Almost all human actions in adult life, programmed since childhood. Our education, the attitude of the parents, their relationships with each other – all this determines our future. Fears, too, have their origins in childhood. Initially all fears rather primitive and fully natural. According to psychologists, children’s fears can be helpful. They help the child learn about the world, to remember the dangers that lurk, and avoid them in the future. But, having played a positive role, your fears should disappear, and someone they stay and allow them to live a full and happy life.
Psychologists to “cure” fears exactly memories, that is, to stop being afraid of something – you need to thoroughly examine all of your childhood available to the memories, to understand the causes of this fear, to analyze in detail the mistakes their parents, to make a few manipulations with his mind and the fear will disappear. Quite a chore, but many say effectively.
Parents, as you know, I want children, but sometimes only because of my own ignorance can cause serious problems in the baby.
In this article I want to review the most common childhood fears and their causes, perhaps someone it will help to avoid the mistakes that so hard then treated by psychologists.
Fear of doctors (pain)
When the child will have an unpleasant medical procedure, such as a vaccination Continue reading
The therapy is becoming increasingly popular methods of influence on the younger generation. The tale will help to overcome shyness and whims of the child. After reading the tale, he will learn to distinguish good from bad, learning to empathize and to seek justice.
For centuries among our parents argued: without belt child not to educate. Such “soldier” methods became really popular, and even today, in an intellectually advanced society, common among many parents. But, abroad for many years, promote the upbringing of children without the use of physical or moral pressure. Now this trend is becoming popular among our parents.
The tale is a language that the child understands
The therapy is, by saying “scientific” attempt to objectify the problem situation, or in other words – this good fairy-tale upbringing in an atmosphere where dreams become reality, where there is anticipation of a miracle, justice and kindness in the world. This helps the child to overcome your fears, and most importantly – gives the child a sense of confidence and security.
Of all the practices of pedagogy perhaps the most interesting method of raising a child can be called a fairy . When the teacher shows the child the connection between the fairy tale scenario and the behavior of people in real Continue reading