Early childhood — a very short span in the life of a person. But during this time the child acquires significantly more than for the rest of his life. Many psychologists and educators believe that the most important is the age from birth to three years.
Famous Japanese specialist on early development Masaru Ibuka in his book “After three late” tells the story of how early life experiences affect the future destiny of man. The fastest leapfrog development occurs just at this time. But after three years the child continues to learn about the world. So the fact remains — all children of preschool age are unusually sensitive to all kinds of influences. If we do not notice the results of some impacts, this does not suggests that they are not. Preschoolers are ready to chat, learn new skills, develop existing abilities. The task of parents — to put them on the right path.
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How should respond to parents, caregivers manifestations of curiosity to the genitals? First, to understand the motivations of the children. They are driven by curiosity and in no way depravity, or an unhealthy desire. The girls, as did the opening four year old boy, there is no “Piwnica”, and the boys are not like girls “because they at the bottom of the tube” – concluded his same age, which began to attend kindergarten. This curiosity about genitalia, usually ends.
Secondly, you need to patiently explain to the kid what to behave, to peep, to expose genitals, touching them ugly and unworthy. As rightly pointed out by V. Levi, from early childhood boys and girls should learn the concept of “indecent”. In any case, we should not blame the child in raspotocje or to punish. Rigor in the assessment of parents such manifestations of sexual shamelessness should not cross this boundary, when the child begins to feel like a criminal.
Teachers of kindergartens are well aware that not all children (especially those who live in one-child families and did not attend for any reason, pre-schools), reaching school age, you know that boys differ from girls not only because they wear different clothes, but the structure of the genital organs.
Any child in a family where there are phones, tablets, smartphones and computers, begins quite early interested in. How do you determine where is the line between a healthy interest and dependence on gadgets. It’s easy to understand after watching child’s behavior and answering such questions.
How much time the child plays computer games? If more hours a day – it is worth considering.
If your child can enjoy games without a computer or tablet?
How easy it is to distract the child from the computer, calling him to eat, play or sleep?
Does the child draw on the paper, read books or listen to my mother’s reading or all this prefers the computer?
If your child can spend one or several days, never looking at the computer?
Based on honest answers to these questions, each parent can understand how the impact of computer games on children a lot in their case.
The causes are dependent on gadgets
Many parents, worrying about what a strong influence of computer games can have a detrimental effect on the child, you forget that often provoke the emergence of dependence. It is therefore important to understand why children start actively interested in the computer or a tablet and forget about other games.
The main causes of increased interest in gadgets are the following.
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