How should respond to parents, caregivers manifestations of curiosity to the genitals? First, to understand the motivations of the children. They are driven by curiosity and in no way depravity, or an unhealthy desire. The girls, as did the opening four year old boy, there is no “Piwnica”, and the boys are not like girls “because they at the bottom of the tube” – concluded his same age, which began to attend kindergarten. This curiosity about genitalia, usually ends.
Secondly, you need to patiently explain to the kid what to behave, to peep, to expose genitals, touching them ugly and unworthy. As rightly pointed out by V. Levi, from early childhood boys and girls should learn the concept of “indecent”. In any case, we should not blame the child in raspotocje or to punish. Rigor in the assessment of parents such manifestations of sexual shamelessness should not cross this boundary, when the child begins to feel like a criminal.
Teachers of kindergartens are well aware that not all children (especially those who live in one-child families and did not attend for any reason, pre-schools), reaching school age, you know that boys differ from girls not only because they wear different clothes, but the structure of the genital organs.
Of The Kyrgyz Republic. Remember how in the film “country of the deaf”, the main character, suffering from lack of hearing, all the while repeating: “I’m deaf, but not dumb.” Few people know that in every country the language. And actually, hearing what people know about the life of the deaf? To learn how to live deprived hearing what problems they have, the correspondent of IA “24. kg ” decided at the teacher’s sign language Republican special General education boarding school for deaf children, sign language interpreter Cholpon Seitokai.
– What are you, a hearing person, forced to commit themselves to working with deaf and hard of hearing children?
– I accidentally came into this profession. In 1990-ies in connection with the collapse of the country from boarding school for the deaf began outflow of personnel. I worked there mom, and she asked for help. I agreed to stay for a couple of weeks, while the management will not find a specialist. Eventually left for 20 years. Not knowing the language, he started work as a teacher of Junior classes. And then he learned the language and became a teacher, the last three years as the Deputy Director for educational Affairs.