The education of the child in a single-parent family requires a special approach. The vast majority of these families are without fathers, so-called “maternal family”, although in recent years began to occur such families, where there is no mother. To a huge regret, the number of single-parent families is growing a lot of progression. Most of these families are formed as a result of divorce, Pope m mom, the emergence of nebracnyj children, the death of a parent. In the latter case, the child with the death of, say, the Pope remains a memory. About him often say older, usually idealized, view photos. And a child, growing up without a dad, constantly feels as though his presence. Moreover, if the family grow and the older children.
Another thing, when my parents divorced. Here take effect pejorative characteristics of the parent, whether mom or dad. In the family, if you recall, always in a negative color. And the child develops a complex. If it’s a girl, it gets used in each of the male gender to only see the negative. Subconsciously her childhood produced such quality as the rejection of men. If it’s a boy, then it may affect low self-esteem, they say, I had a bad father, then, and I’m the same. Very serious child feels Continue reading
But, unfortunately, there are some circumstances that lead me to encourage You to use this chance in life as possible.
What are these circumstances?
Computer for a child is a whole different world . A world that could easily replace him with the real world. Often this happens easily and quickly, because this illusory world much brighter and more dynamic than any reality. And it may very much:
1. First of all: a sense of control of events, a sense of ownership of reality.
Playing computer games, the child feels the center of the world, because all the events affected himself. And the better he gets, the more pleasure he feels. Virtual life is much more dynamic and interesting than real life. The child who has no real friends, interesting activities and events simply nothing to oppose this!
In real life, to get a feeling of satisfaction, and would have had to work hard and work on yourself. And often, experience, and an extremely painful feeling of disappointment and despair. Returning to reality from the virtual world, the child feels helpless in the face of pressing problems. He again wants to return to the sweet Continue reading