Not hard to guess that people who have achieved success, and that, as a rule, politicians, actors, business men for a long time were “not on the horse” and had difficulties in communicating. They were not my favorite job, suffered from self-doubt. But as you can see from the headlines, they’re all just fine. And I have to tell you, many of them would not have coped with their difficulties in communicating without psychological help and without the help of an experienced psychologist. All psychological communication techniques they have mastered for a long time.
Insecurities often get in the way of effective communication, sometimes to have to seek psychological help. But still, let’s see, what uncertainty does to us and with someone. When you are unsure, feel discomfort, pressure under the breast, the lump in my throat makes you relax and say the word. And you don’t know what to say! And rightly so, how do you know what to say, if you compresses so much “bodily harm.” Only when you feel relaxed and calm, the words themselves come to mind.
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How should respond to parents, caregivers manifestations of curiosity to the genitals? First, to understand the motivations of the children. They are driven by curiosity and in no way depravity, or an unhealthy desire. The girls, as did the opening four year old boy, there is no “Piwnica”, and the boys are not like girls “because they at the bottom of the tube” – concluded his same age, which began to attend kindergarten. This curiosity about genitalia, usually ends.
Secondly, you need to patiently explain to the kid what to behave, to peep, to expose genitals, touching them ugly and unworthy. As rightly pointed out by V. Levi, from early childhood boys and girls should learn the concept of “indecent”. In any case, we should not blame the child in raspotocje or to punish. Rigor in the assessment of parents such manifestations of sexual shamelessness should not cross this boundary, when the child begins to feel like a criminal.
Teachers of kindergartens are well aware that not all children (especially those who live in one-child families and did not attend for any reason, pre-schools), reaching school age, you know that boys differ from girls not only because they wear different clothes, but the structure of the genital organs.