The children are very upset about the divorce of the parents, for them the word “divorce” means the division of family and unknown changes in their habitual life. It is clear that parents are also not easy, but the kids…they’re not to blame for the fact that the parents did not find a common language.
No matter what age was your child, psychological trauma’t be avoided. You should make every effort to help the child during this period. Often parents are so busy section of property, litigation and insult each other that they just don’t have the time nor the energy. And the child feels is not needed and not important for the parents. And the phrase “I try for you”, in such cases, it sounds ridiculous.
In this difficult period need to pay more attention to the child, even more than usual. Often talk to him, ask about his life. Mom and dad have to show that divorce shall in no way affect their relationship that parents will also love the child even after a divorce, just now you will not live together.
Never allow yourself to vilify each other in front of the kids, and set the child against Continue reading
Only now I understand how I miss them.:-( Life treated them with great love and respect, and still think that he was not able to fully convey to them my feelings and I thank them for all they did to me.
Aged my folks
The rain knocks on the window, as the frozen bird.
But she fell asleep, continuing to wait for us.
Today I want to the ground to worship
The woman named MOTHER.
That which life has presented to us in pain,
The one that dreams sometimes don’t sleep at night.
Pressed against his chest, her warm hands.
And pray for us all Holy Images.
For the health of their daughters, sons.
Each new step is for her was like a holiday.
And she was hurt from the pain of children.
From their native place fly like birds:
Soon we would become adults.
Today I want to the ground to worship.
the woman, whose name is MOTHER.
HELLO!HOW WE TREAT OUR PARENTS AND OUR CHILDREN WILL TREAT THEIR CHILDREN.THERE is a PROVERB:”WHAT OURSELVES-SANI.”TELL ABOUT MY FAMILY, the MOST ORDINARY ,ordinary ARMENIAN FAMILY.US AT MOTHER OF FIVE ADULT CHILDREN AND GRANDPARENTS. Continue reading
Almost all human actions in adult life, programmed since childhood. Our education, the attitude of the parents, their relationships with each other – all this determines our future. Fears, too, have their origins in childhood. Initially all fears rather primitive and fully natural. According to psychologists, children’s fears can be helpful. They help the child learn about the world, to remember the dangers that lurk, and avoid them in the future. But, having played a positive role, your fears should disappear, and someone they stay and allow them to live a full and happy life.
Psychologists to “cure” fears exactly memories, that is, to stop being afraid of something – you need to thoroughly examine all of your childhood available to the memories, to understand the causes of this fear, to analyze in detail the mistakes their parents, to make a few manipulations with his mind and the fear will disappear. Quite a chore, but many say effectively.
Parents, as you know, I want children, but sometimes only because of my own ignorance can cause serious problems in the baby.
In this article I want to review the most common childhood fears and their causes, perhaps someone it will help to avoid the mistakes that so hard then treated by psychologists.
Fear of doctors (pain)
When the child will have an unpleasant medical procedure, such as a vaccination Continue reading