“Today, we will become a mother…”. This phrase is thrown by an obstetrician-gynecologist in prenatal ward, sobered me. Now that’s a different countdown, now will start a new life, both literally and figuratively. I will not describe how I became a mother physically. In this case I want to consider the psychological aspect of my new life.
What is motherhood?
Motherhood is a controversial happiness. How would not like to say so, but this phrase stuck in my head for a long time. Motherhood is happiness! Happiness! Happiness! This is a boundless, overwhelming feeling. So what are the contradictions. I fiercely love my children, but something is getting me down, and It came after the birth of children. At least I thought so.
Actually, the contradictions begin long before birth. Every woman has a certain fear, staring at the test for pregnancy determination, regardless of what she expects to see there. Whether the fear of what her hopes again are not met, and ahead of another long night of loneliness, or the fear of new life that already beats you’ve got a heart, or simply fear of the reluctance of the appearance of life itself.
However, the nature, as a result, takes over, and gradually the fear is replaced by joy, and the woman begins to get used to his new position. There begins her new, exciting Continue reading
The child must live in the family. If not, you’ll need to find a new one. With this setting today employs experts of bodies of guardianship and guardianship of the Republic. Residents of Chuvashia only “for”. Many, especially in rural areas, are willing to take an orphan into their home. But how to do it? And than, for example, custody is different from foster care? The “hotline”, held on February 9, the Ministry of education and youth policy of the Republic, called about fifty people. Here are the answers to some of them.
– Going with my wife to go to the orphanage to choose a child. What the orphanage advise? (Vasily Nikiforov, Mariinsky Posad district).
– Once in the orphanage go no sense, because first of all you should collect a package of documents to qualify as a candidate for guardianship or foster family in the regional bodies of guardianship and guardianship. If an expert opinion is positive, you will pick up the children according to your wishes. Then get on the road at proposed locations.
– What is the difference between guardians from the foster family? (Elena, Novocheboksarsk).
– The difference is small. And guardians, and adoptive parents are the legal representatives Continue reading