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Aggression in young children

Many children go through a period between two and four years – when the beats and biting is a form of communication, often the only one to Express this or that in their condition, for example: “I am angry” or “I want this.” Not having even the power of speech and, thus, not knowing how else to Express their wishes and requests, they tend to resort to using his fists or sharp baby teeth. Despite the fact that this is a normal stage of child development, such aggressiveness can turn into a habit. Children who, growing up, learn to suppress their aggression and to communicate with others using oral speech, often become real fighters. Through the fights, the children can produce their own things to which they aspire, but it will make them outcasts in the children’s company and other kids will be afraid of them.

If your child is in this phase of development, he may soon pass her. To bring this point (and to help protect other children!), you can use the tips that will help your child get rid of aggressive habits.

Show attention.

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How to prepare your child to him?

Divorce is experienced it is hard even for an adult. This is not a joke – because crumbling family. But many families facing divorce, have children. Perhaps in your family too is this a difficult change. How to prepare your child for divorce? What to do in order for this process was held for him in the least painful? How to help?

Unfortunately, he has to protect the child from psychological pain in a divorce you will not succeed. Divorce is the destruction of his world, he has to survive the loss of a parent (and the care of the family is perceived as a loss, no less!), to adapt to a new life in a single-parent family, possibly even to survive the move to another house or another city… If you have the mental condition of the child is important, before you begin divorce proceedings, you should consult with a child and family psychologist . The specialist will help you to prepare your child for a challenging stage in life.

Unfortunately, the time for reflection and preparation for the divorce is not at all. The circumstances are different, the causes of divorce. Often divorce falls on the head of the family members as snow on the head, and do not have time and desire. Very often parents are too absorbed in their own problems to pay attention to children. Sometimes are horrible for baby things – for example, Continue reading

Difficulties

Not hard to guess that people who have achieved success, and that, as a rule, politicians, actors, business men for a long time were “not on the horse” and had difficulties in communicating. They were not my favorite job, suffered from self-doubt. But as you can see from the headlines, they’re all just fine. And I have to tell you, many of them would not have coped with their difficulties in communicating without psychological help and without the help of an experienced psychologist. All psychological communication techniques they have mastered for a long time.

Hinder communication:

Insecurities often get in the way of effective communication, sometimes to have to seek psychological help. But still, let’s see, what uncertainty does to us and with someone. When you are unsure, feel discomfort, pressure under the breast, the lump in my throat makes you relax and say the word. And you don’t know what to say! And rightly so, how do you know what to say, if you compresses so much “bodily harm.” Only when you feel relaxed and calm, the words themselves come to mind.

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