The education of the child in a single-parent family requires a special approach. The vast majority of these families are without fathers, so-called “maternal family”, although in recent years began to occur such families, where there is no mother. To a huge regret, the number of single-parent families is growing a lot of progression. Most of these families are formed as a result of divorce, Pope m mom, the emergence of nebracnyj children, the death of a parent. In the latter case, the child with the death of, say, the Pope remains a memory. About him often say older, usually idealized, view photos. And a child, growing up without a dad, constantly feels as though his presence. Moreover, if the family grow and the older children.
Another thing, when my parents divorced. Here take effect pejorative characteristics of the parent, whether mom or dad. In the family, if you recall, always in a negative color. And the child develops a complex. If it’s a girl, it gets used in each of the male gender to only see the negative. Subconsciously her childhood produced such quality as the rejection of men. If it’s a boy, then it may affect low self-esteem, they say, I had a bad father, then, and I’m the same. Very serious child feels Continue reading
Some parents do not attach importance to the fears of children. It happens that parents stubbornly ignore the fear of a child or, even worse, ridiculed him, scolded, punished. But there comes a time and parents are forced to notice the fear of the child, because the consequences of fears become too obvious (aggression, sleep disturbance, confusion, neurosis). Only in this case to help a child is much more difficult.
Fear is based on the instinct of self-preservation, has a protective nature and is accompanied by certain physiological changes in higher nervous activity, which affects heart rate and respiration, blood pressure, the secretion of gastric juice.
In the most General form of the emotion of fear arises in response to a threatening stimulus. There are two threats that have universal and at the same time fatal in its outcome. It’s death and the collapse of values, in contrast to such concepts as life, health, assertiveness, personal and social well-being. But in addition to extreme expressions of fear always involves the experience of any real or imagined danger.
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Divorce at the present time – not an uncommon phenomenon. When parents can no longer be together: one person fell out of love, met another man, finally, do not get along, they believe that it is better to divorce. The argument is that the child still feels the tension, false, and often becomes a witness of scandals, so it’s better for him not to see it.
Of course, the kid is painful to see discord between parents, but it is even more painful when one of them leaves the family. Parental divorce greatly affects the psyche of children. Change can be very different. Much again will depend on the position of the parents in this situation. A possible development scenario could be several.
Strange, of course, will sound “good separation”, but to scatter wife really might like a cat with a dog, nagovor each other offensive words. And, most importantly, a hostage situation again going to have a baby. Because, a little later after the breakup, each of them will try to make the child as an ally, to win his attention. One of the variants of the conquest of the location of the parent can be the gifts that are supposedly “smooth out” negative impressions. Only sometimes spouses don’t understand that for a daughter or son there is no priority in love. They take their parents for granted, not giving special Continue reading