Divorce is experienced it is hard even for an adult. This is not a joke – because crumbling family. But many families facing divorce, have children. Perhaps in your family too is this a difficult change. How to prepare your child for divorce? What to do in order for this process was held for him in the least painful? How to help?
Unfortunately, he has to protect the child from psychological pain in a divorce you will not succeed. Divorce is the destruction of his world, he has to survive the loss of a parent (and the care of the family is perceived as a loss, no less!), to adapt to a new life in a single-parent family, possibly even to survive the move to another house or another city… If you have the mental condition of the child is important, before you begin divorce proceedings, you should consult with a child and family psychologist . The specialist will help you to prepare your child for a challenging stage in life.
Unfortunately, the time for reflection and preparation for the divorce is not at all. The circumstances are different, the causes of divorce. Often divorce falls on the head of the family members as snow on the head, and do not have time and desire. Very often parents are too absorbed in their own problems to pay attention to children. Sometimes are horrible for baby things – for example, Continue reading
The children are very upset about the divorce of the parents, for them the word “divorce” means the division of family and unknown changes in their habitual life. It is clear that parents are also not easy, but the kids…they’re not to blame for the fact that the parents did not find a common language.
No matter what age was your child, psychological trauma’t be avoided. You should make every effort to help the child during this period. Often parents are so busy section of property, litigation and insult each other that they just don’t have the time nor the energy. And the child feels is not needed and not important for the parents. And the phrase “I try for you”, in such cases, it sounds ridiculous.
In this difficult period need to pay more attention to the child, even more than usual. Often talk to him, ask about his life. Mom and dad have to show that divorce shall in no way affect their relationship that parents will also love the child even after a divorce, just now you will not live together.
Never allow yourself to vilify each other in front of the kids, and set the child against Continue reading
Although God is love, but in this commandment He says reverently. Respect – this is the highest form of love. You can love, but not to read, but there is no respect without love. Deference involves a deep respect and reverential gratitude. True reverence implies an appeal to “you”, it does not allow you to hurt people, raise your voice, especially raising your hand.
The opposite of respect is familiarity. Familiarity – it is sin that occurs at every step. When a person behaves with parents, leaders, managers familiarly, cheeky, arrogant, he loses grace. “Like the precious oil upon the head, flowing down on the beard, the beard Aaronic flowing on the border of his garment”, Psalm 132:2 . Firs flowing from the head, so when we put the parents on the same level or even below it are losing a great many of the blessings that could only be obtained through the chain of command.
God – Creator of the universe. Father, mother – creators of our lives. God gave them this status. God has entrusted to us, namely our parents, so they need to be as reverent, reverent, sacred, as God. If a person Continue reading