The education of the child in a single-parent family requires a special approach. The vast majority of these families are without fathers, so-called “maternal family”, although in recent years began to occur such families, where there is no mother. To a huge regret, the number of single-parent families is growing a lot of progression. Most of these families are formed as a result of divorce, Pope m mom, the emergence of nebracnyj children, the death of a parent. In the latter case, the child with the death of, say, the Pope remains a memory. About him often say older, usually idealized, view photos. And a child, growing up without a dad, constantly feels as though his presence. Moreover, if the family grow and the older children.
Another thing, when my parents divorced. Here take effect pejorative characteristics of the parent, whether mom or dad. In the family, if you recall, always in a negative color. And the child develops a complex. If it’s a girl, it gets used in each of the male gender to only see the negative. Subconsciously her childhood produced such quality as the rejection of men. If it’s a boy, then it may affect low self-esteem, they say, I had a bad father, then, and I’m the same. Very serious child feels Continue reading
Divorce is experienced it is hard even for an adult. This is not a joke – because crumbling family. But many families facing divorce, have children. Perhaps in your family too is this a difficult change. How to prepare your child for divorce? What to do in order for this process was held for him in the least painful? How to help?
Unfortunately, he has to protect the child from psychological pain in a divorce you will not succeed. Divorce is the destruction of his world, he has to survive the loss of a parent (and the care of the family is perceived as a loss, no less!), to adapt to a new life in a single-parent family, possibly even to survive the move to another house or another city… If you have the mental condition of the child is important, before you begin divorce proceedings, you should consult with a child and family psychologist . The specialist will help you to prepare your child for a challenging stage in life.
Unfortunately, the time for reflection and preparation for the divorce is not at all. The circumstances are different, the causes of divorce. Often divorce falls on the head of the family members as snow on the head, and do not have time and desire. Very often parents are too absorbed in their own problems to pay attention to children. Sometimes are horrible for baby things – for example, Continue reading
The school of adoptive parents is a relatively new phenomenon. But these programs have helped a considerable number of children and parents to find each other and create new families. What happens in the classroom who visit them, what fears have with prospective parents and on what terms you can take the family to the child? About Catherine Hlamovoy told Tatyana Markova, educational psychologist, the District authorized organization to support orphans and children left without parental care.
What is a “school for foster parents”?
This session, in which potential parents are prepared to take the child into the family. Leading talk about the psychology of the child-orphans, about how he will adjust to the new family on the legal aspects of admission. Parents not only listen to lectures and discuss topics that concern them, play set leading situation, watch videos and participate in a brainstorm, talk with the alumni. As you can see, the main focus is on the interaction between leaders and participants. An equally important part of preparation is an individual consultation with experts.
Who comes to these classes?
It’s not just young couples who for medical reasons Continue reading