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How to overcome the age crisis?

Many parents notice that the child’s behavior at age 7 varies. All this is due to the fact that the crisis is 7 years old. What to do? Parents don’t know that. This article will tell you how to behave.

At the age of 7 years in a child’s psychological breakdown. All of its children’s values change, the concepts of good and bad too. Now he is no longer the baby, and the student learns to interact with other children. All this changes the behavior of the child in 7 years.

It is considered that in comparison with crises 3 and 14 years, the crisis of 7 years the most quiet and less noticeable. But it happens very rarely, and, most likely, parents who do not pay enough attention to the child, it can really not be overlooked. And those parents who have experienced the crisis of 7 years, what to do, I don’t know. But first you need to understand the symptoms of this case, and with which they are associated.

All this is happening with a child, because he is becoming more Mature. Willy-nilly, he begins to realize that his desires are not always compatible with the capabilities of parents and himself. Does this change the world, break down stereotypes. Now the child is in control Continue reading

The Children after the divorce of his parents

The children are very upset about the divorce of the parents, for them the word “divorce” means the division of family and unknown changes in their habitual life. It is clear that parents are also not easy, but the kids…they’re not to blame for the fact that the parents did not find a common language.

No matter what age was your child, psychological trauma’t be avoided. You should make every effort to help the child during this period. Often parents are so busy section of property, litigation and insult each other that they just don’t have the time nor the energy. And the child feels is not needed and not important for the parents. And the phrase “I try for you”, in such cases, it sounds ridiculous.

In this difficult period need to pay more attention to the child, even more than usual. Often talk to him, ask about his life. Mom and dad have to show that divorce shall in no way affect their relationship that parents will also love the child even after a divorce, just now you will not live together.

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Mom, I’m scared

Almost all human actions in adult life, programmed since childhood. Our education, the attitude of the parents, their relationships with each other – all this determines our future. Fears, too, have their origins in childhood. Initially all fears rather primitive and fully natural. According to psychologists, children’s fears can be helpful. They help the child learn about the world, to remember the dangers that lurk, and avoid them in the future. But, having played a positive role, your fears should disappear, and someone they stay and allow them to live a full and happy life.

Psychologists to “cure” fears exactly memories, that is, to stop being afraid of something – you need to thoroughly examine all of your childhood available to the memories, to understand the causes of this fear, to analyze in detail the mistakes their parents, to make a few manipulations with his mind and the fear will disappear. Quite a chore, but many say effectively.

Parents, as you know, I want children, but sometimes only because of my own ignorance can cause serious problems in the baby.

In this article I want to review the most common childhood fears and their causes, perhaps someone it will help to avoid the mistakes that so hard then treated by psychologists.

Fear of doctors (pain)

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Study of the abilities of the child
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The education of the child in a single-parent family
The education of the child in a single-parent family requires a special approach. The vast majority of these families are without fathers, so-called "maternal family", although in recent years began…

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Have loved and appreciated them?
Only now I understand how I miss them.:-( Life treated them with great love and respect, and still think that he was not able to fully convey to them my…

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