Early childhood — a very short span in the life of a person. But during this time the child acquires significantly more than for the rest of his life. Many psychologists and educators believe that the most important is the age from birth to three years.
Famous Japanese specialist on early development Masaru Ibuka in his book “After three late” tells the story of how early life experiences affect the future destiny of man. The fastest leapfrog development occurs just at this time. But after three years the child continues to learn about the world. So the fact remains — all children of preschool age are unusually sensitive to all kinds of influences. If we do not notice the results of some impacts, this does not suggests that they are not. Preschoolers are ready to chat, learn new skills, develop existing abilities. The task of parents — to put them on the right path.
Visual-figurative thinking begins to emerge in children at the age of one and a half years and finally formed to five years. Using such thinking, the child is able to solve different tasks with real objects. This means that a child aged four to five Continue reading
Almost all human actions in adult life, programmed since childhood. Our education, the attitude of the parents, their relationships with each other – all this determines our future. Fears, too, have their origins in childhood. Initially all fears rather primitive and fully natural. According to psychologists, children’s fears can be helpful. They help the child learn about the world, to remember the dangers that lurk, and avoid them in the future. But, having played a positive role, your fears should disappear, and someone they stay and allow them to live a full and happy life.
Psychologists to “cure” fears exactly memories, that is, to stop being afraid of something – you need to thoroughly examine all of your childhood available to the memories, to understand the causes of this fear, to analyze in detail the mistakes their parents, to make a few manipulations with his mind and the fear will disappear. Quite a chore, but many say effectively.
Parents, as you know, I want children, but sometimes only because of my own ignorance can cause serious problems in the baby.
In this article I want to review the most common childhood fears and their causes, perhaps someone it will help to avoid the mistakes that so hard then treated by psychologists.
Fear of doctors (pain)
When the child will have an unpleasant medical procedure, such as a vaccination Continue reading
Not hard to guess that people who have achieved success, and that, as a rule, politicians, actors, business men for a long time were “not on the horse” and had difficulties in communicating. They were not my favorite job, suffered from self-doubt. But as you can see from the headlines, they’re all just fine. And I have to tell you, many of them would not have coped with their difficulties in communicating without psychological help and without the help of an experienced psychologist. All psychological communication techniques they have mastered for a long time.
Insecurities often get in the way of effective communication, sometimes to have to seek psychological help. But still, let’s see, what uncertainty does to us and with someone. When you are unsure, feel discomfort, pressure under the breast, the lump in my throat makes you relax and say the word. And you don’t know what to say! And rightly so, how do you know what to say, if you compresses so much “bodily harm.” Only when you feel relaxed and calm, the words themselves come to mind.
During a conversation with someone, it is better to leave the problems that gnaw at you, it is better to discuss them with him, unless of course Continue reading