Some parents do not attach importance to the fears of children. It happens that parents stubbornly ignore the fear of a child or, even worse, ridiculed him, scolded, punished. But there comes a time and parents are forced to notice the fear of the child, because the consequences of fears become too obvious (aggression, sleep disturbance, confusion, neurosis). Only in this case to help a child is much more difficult.
Fear is based on the instinct of self-preservation, has a protective nature and is accompanied by certain physiological changes in higher nervous activity, which affects heart rate and respiration, blood pressure, the secretion of gastric juice.
In the most General form of the emotion of fear arises in response to a threatening stimulus. There are two threats that have universal and at the same time fatal in its outcome. It’s death and the collapse of values, in contrast to such concepts as life, health, assertiveness, personal and social well-being. But in addition to extreme expressions of fear always involves the experience of any real or imagined danger.
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The school of adoptive parents is a relatively new phenomenon. But these programs have helped a considerable number of children and parents to find each other and create new families. What happens in the classroom who visit them, what fears have with prospective parents and on what terms you can take the family to the child? About Catherine Hlamovoy told Tatyana Markova, educational psychologist, the District authorized organization to support orphans and children left without parental care.
What is a “school for foster parents”?
This session, in which potential parents are prepared to take the child into the family. Leading talk about the psychology of the child-orphans, about how he will adjust to the new family on the legal aspects of admission. Parents not only listen to lectures and discuss topics that concern them, play set leading situation, watch videos and participate in a brainstorm, talk with the alumni. As you can see, the main focus is on the interaction between leaders and participants. An equally important part of preparation is an individual consultation with experts.
Who comes to these classes?
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But, unfortunately, there are some circumstances that lead me to encourage You to use this chance in life as possible.
What are these circumstances?
Computer for a child is a whole different world . A world that could easily replace him with the real world. Often this happens easily and quickly, because this illusory world much brighter and more dynamic than any reality. And it may very much:
1. First of all: a sense of control of events, a sense of ownership of reality.
Playing computer games, the child feels the center of the world, because all the events affected himself. And the better he gets, the more pleasure he feels. Virtual life is much more dynamic and interesting than real life. The child who has no real friends, interesting activities and events simply nothing to oppose this!
In real life, to get a feeling of satisfaction, and would have had to work hard and work on yourself. And often, experience, and an extremely painful feeling of disappointment and despair. Returning to reality from the virtual world, the child feels helpless in the face of pressing problems. He again wants to return to the sweet Continue reading