Many children go through a period between two and four years – when the beats and biting is a form of communication, often the only one to Express this or that in their condition, for example: “I am angry” or “I want this.” Not having even the power of speech and, thus, not knowing how else to Express their wishes and requests, they tend to resort to using his fists or sharp baby teeth. Despite the fact that this is a normal stage of child development, such aggressiveness can turn into a habit. Children who, growing up, learn to suppress their aggression and to communicate with others using oral speech, often become real fighters. Through the fights, the children can produce their own things to which they aspire, but it will make them outcasts in the children’s company and other kids will be afraid of them.
If your child is in this phase of development, he may soon pass her. To bring this point (and to help protect other children!), you can use the tips that will help your child get rid of aggressive habits.
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Not hard to guess that people who have achieved success, and that, as a rule, politicians, actors, business men for a long time were “not on the horse” and had difficulties in communicating. They were not my favorite job, suffered from self-doubt. But as you can see from the headlines, they’re all just fine. And I have to tell you, many of them would not have coped with their difficulties in communicating without psychological help and without the help of an experienced psychologist. All psychological communication techniques they have mastered for a long time.
Insecurities often get in the way of effective communication, sometimes to have to seek psychological help. But still, let’s see, what uncertainty does to us and with someone. When you are unsure, feel discomfort, pressure under the breast, the lump in my throat makes you relax and say the word. And you don’t know what to say! And rightly so, how do you know what to say, if you compresses so much “bodily harm.” Only when you feel relaxed and calm, the words themselves come to mind.
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Divorce at the present time – not an uncommon phenomenon. When parents can no longer be together: one person fell out of love, met another man, finally, do not get along, they believe that it is better to divorce. The argument is that the child still feels the tension, false, and often becomes a witness of scandals, so it’s better for him not to see it.
Of course, the kid is painful to see discord between parents, but it is even more painful when one of them leaves the family. Parental divorce greatly affects the psyche of children. Change can be very different. Much again will depend on the position of the parents in this situation. A possible development scenario could be several.
Strange, of course, will sound “good separation”, but to scatter wife really might like a cat with a dog, nagovor each other offensive words. And, most importantly, a hostage situation again going to have a baby. Because, a little later after the breakup, each of them will try to make the child as an ally, to win his attention. One of the variants of the conquest of the location of the parent can be the gifts that are supposedly “smooth out” negative impressions. Only sometimes spouses don’t understand that for a daughter or son there is no priority in love. They take their parents for granted, not giving special Continue reading