Almost all human actions in adult life, programmed since childhood. Our education, the attitude of the parents, their relationships with each other – all this determines our future. Fears, too, have their origins in childhood. Initially all fears rather primitive and fully natural. According to psychologists, children’s fears can be helpful. They help the child learn about the world, to remember the dangers that lurk, and avoid them in the future. But, having played a positive role, your fears should disappear, and someone they stay and allow them to live a full and happy life.
Psychologists to “cure” fears exactly memories, that is, to stop being afraid of something – you need to thoroughly examine all of your childhood available to the memories, to understand the causes of this fear, to analyze in detail the mistakes their parents, to make a few manipulations with his mind and the fear will disappear. Quite a chore, but many say effectively.
Parents, as you know, I want children, but sometimes only because of my own ignorance can cause serious problems in the baby.
In this article I want to review the most common childhood fears and their causes, perhaps someone it will help to avoid the mistakes that so hard then treated by psychologists.
Fear of doctors (pain)
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Children are our all. And we put a lot of effort to grow up healthy, develop physically, mentally and spiritually. The situation surrounding the child, is an important factor. Decorating the interior of a child, you need to consider various aspects. Will tell you about some of them.
All loving parents trying to provide children with the most comfortable living conditions. How color can affect the baby’s development and the formation of his character? As through the use of color to help the child to cope with difficulties or to escape from negative situations? Experiment with the design of the nursery, not forgetting that the disposition of the child may not coincide with yours. Let’s watch his mood and status and act accordingly.
Impact color: misconceptions and realities
The first misconception. Colors affect everyone equally. And in the book of Goethe, “the theory of color”, and modern tool for businessmen “How to manage people with color” or a book on Feng Shui are the same principles of the influence of color on humans.Actually it is not so. Each color has its meaning only within a particular culture. For example, for a European, white symbolizes Continue reading
The therapy is becoming increasingly popular methods of influence on the younger generation. The tale will help to overcome shyness and whims of the child. After reading the tale, he will learn to distinguish good from bad, learning to empathize and to seek justice.
For centuries among our parents argued: without belt child not to educate. Such “soldier” methods became really popular, and even today, in an intellectually advanced society, common among many parents. But, abroad for many years, promote the upbringing of children without the use of physical or moral pressure. Now this trend is becoming popular among our parents.
The tale is a language that the child understands
The therapy is, by saying “scientific” attempt to objectify the problem situation, or in other words – this good fairy-tale upbringing in an atmosphere where dreams become reality, where there is anticipation of a miracle, justice and kindness in the world. This helps the child to overcome your fears, and most importantly – gives the child a sense of confidence and security.
Of all the practices of pedagogy perhaps the most interesting method of raising a child can be called a fairy . When the teacher shows the child the connection between the fairy tale scenario and the behavior of people in real Continue reading